Etiquette - FAQ

Outcall

I am available for outcalls, visiting 4 or 5-star hotels. Private residences are a possibility for established clients.

 

My schedule often fills up several weeks in advance, so if you have a particular date or time in mind, I strongly recommend booking early, especially when travelling from abroad. Last-minute availability is uncommon, although you are always welcome to ask, as I can occasionally fit in an additional date.

 

My availability varies from month to month due to my academic commitments. You can find my current availability on the 'Book A Date' page.

Screening

It's important for me to know who I'll be meeting. If you are a new lover, I kindly ask you to provide some information about yourself. Screening is required for all new clients.

 

I accept one of the following screening methods:

  • A photo of your passport/ID or driving licence showing your full name. You may obscure any other details.
  • Your LinkedIn profile URL, together with a screenshot showing that you are logged into the account.
  • Employment verification − an email from your work address that includes your name.
  • A reference from an established independent companion whom you have met recently. Please ask for her permission before sharing her details.

 

Your discretion is just as important to me as my own. All communication and information you share with me will remain strictly confidential. Screening information is handled through encrypted email and secure, encrypted storage, and is deleted after our date.

 

I will also ask for a brief phone call beforehand. It gives us an opportunity to say hello, get a feel for one another and see whether we are a good match.

Deposit

A €100 deposit is required to secure our date. The remaining balance is due at the beginning of our date, using the agreed payment method. For international/FMTY bookings, I require a deposit of at least 30% of the booking rate, plus 100% of all travel expenses.

 

Deposits are non-refundable, but may be transferred once to a new date if rescheduled within 3 months. Any further rescheduling requires a new deposit. If you cancel 24 hours or less before our scheduled date, the deposit is forfeited.

Payment

I prefer payment in cash, presented in an unsealed envelope at the beginning of our date. When I am touring abroad, local currency is welcome.

 

If we are meeting in public, you may discreetly place the envelope inside a card, small gift or book.

 

If you prefer an online payment, I will provide the necessary details before our date.

 

I accept:

  • Throne − 7% fee
  • PayPal
  • Bank transfer − IBAN

What you pay for

All payments are for my time and companionship only. Any intimacy we share is a personal choice between two consenting adults, both seeking to maximize each other's pleasure.

 

What is not possible:

  • Unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse
  • Drug use during our date
  • Anything that has not been discussed. If you are interested in specific activities, please ask beforehand.

Courtesy, Respect & Privacy

I expect courtesy and respect throughout our time together. Our date should be enjoyable for both of us, and I ask that my boundaries are always respected. If those boundaries are deliberately ignored, I will end the date early and the payment will not be refunded. Everything we share is at my discretion.

 

Discretion is essential. We both have personal lives, careers, families and friends, and I treat everything you share with me with the utmost care and confidentiality. I value my own privacy just as highly and expect the same consideration in return. Anything exchanged between us should remain strictly confidential, between the two of us.

 

For a comfortable and enjoyable date, I appreciate good personal hygiene. Please be freshly showered and have fresh breath before I arrive. Simply treat our meeting as you would any other date.

Cancellations

I understand that life happens and unexpected circumstances can get in the way of your plans. If you need to cancel, please let me know as soon as possible.

 

In the unlikely event that I need to cancel our date, I will first try to arrange an alternative date with you. If that is not possible, your deposit will be refunded promptly.

 

Lateness

If you're running late, please let me know as soon as possible so I can do my best to adjust my schedule accordingly.

Gifts

If gift-giving is one of your love languages, you are always welcome to spoil me with something beautiful or thoughtful. I love surprises! If you would rather keep your gift a secret, including a gift receipt is always appreciated, just in case.

 

Gifts are always cherished, but never required or expected. I enjoy all five love languages.

 

Looking for gift ideas?

I adore beautiful lingerie, something special to wear during our time together, the classic charm of a red rose, naughty toys, exquisite jewellery, or even a cute little plush toy.

View my Throne Wishlist → 

 
Lingerie brands I love

Bordelle | Fleur du Mal | Couture de Nuit | Agent Provocateur

 

Sizing

If you would like to surprise me with lingerie, feel free to ask for my size. In general, I wear EU 36, S and 70B, although sizing varies between brands:

  • Bordelle
    • Bra: S
    • Brief/Thong: SS
  • Fleur du Mal
    • Bra: 32B
    • Brief/Thong: 2/S
  • Agent Provocateur
    • Bra: 32B
    • Corset/Brief/Thong: AP 2
  • Maison Close
    • S (EU 36)
  • Couture de Nuit
    • One size